At my summer camp, people “fade in” when you arrive at camp and “fade out” when you leave. Honored guests are sometimes introduced to the camp, but overall, people come and go very quietly, without fuss and fanfare.
I’ve always honored the tradition, although I struggle with letting people “fade in”. I can see the sense of it… I guess that when new people arrive during regular camp activities, it could be very distracting for all of the staff to stop what they are doing to greet the person. This is sometimes easier said than done, especially when someone special to me arrives at camp, and I have to be patient and wait for a discrete opportunity to finally say hello. My family has the opposite tradition. When someone arrives, you drop everything, run, holler, and hug them with all your might! Patrick is catching on to our tradition, and loves to greet his dad every day after work. And when you are the one arriving, you make a big scene, honk the horn, and let everyone know you’re excited to be with them. Obviously this wouldn’t work well at camp, but I still struggle with “fade in” as it is not my natural tendency.
The tradition of “Fading out” at camp has much more sentimental value to me. People come and go Continue reading





